Thursday, March 5, 2015

The Grand Share #2 and Trying to Enjoy "Thor"



Thor as seen from my kitchen

It’s March and it is of course in like a lion in New Jersey.  That is always the case and the good news is that it goes out like a lamb. "Thor" - the second snow of the week -  is coming down like crazy.  The good news is that my grandson lives in town and I get to see him even when the weather is bad.  Zach was here for a sleepover over the weekend and I wrote about it on Sunday – you can see that post here. (It's been a popular post so check it out.)



In January I wrote my first link party post and it was wonderful to have other bloggers post their links on my blog.  So here we go again.  I am naming this series "The Grand Share."  But you don’t have to be a grandparent to join in.  All are welcome to share your link.  Only rules – no porn and no violence in the posts.


As I said everyone is welcome and I really want to develop the grandparent network so grandparent bloggers - please, please do join in.


In case you haven't joined a link party before you should know that is super easy.   Just provide a thumbnail and link to your blog and my readers will visit your blog.  Any topic is okay.  Share a story about your kids or grandkids, a product review, a recipe, a travel story, even advice etc.  It's all welcome.
I guess you can see that I haven't started to shovel out of Thor yet....Maybe tomorrow.



I am going to start off by sharing one of my own links.



Sunday, March 1, 2015

I'm Better at This As a Grandparent than I Was As a Parent



Have you ever felt that you are better at something with your grandchildren than you were with your own kids?  I had that positive senior moment this morning with my five year old grandson, Zach.   

We have a standing sleepover date on the Saturday night before the first Sunday of the month.  On the first Sunday, our church has a family service.  There is no church school, the kids are in church for the whole service and our pastor invites the kids to the altar steps where she includes them in an interactive way during the sermon.  Zach likes to come to church with me on these Sundays and he particularly likes going to coffee hour in the parish hall afterwards.
 
My son was always a problem in church as a young child.  He would not sit still and keeping him quiet was a project.  Either my husband or I frequently would have to leave the service with him for a while.  I remember a father of 2 older boys telling me not to worry – “they grow out of it.”  And yes they do.  My grandson is a different child than my son was but I think I am also doing a better job with him and this whole issue of getting a little boy to behave in church.

First of all – I make sure we are always five minutes early and have a chance to settle in before the service begins.  This morning when Zach asked me if it would be long, I looked at the bulletin/service order in my hand and showed it to him.  “We will have to read all of this and sing some hymns so it won’t be short,”  I said, adding,  “There are two parts.  In the beginning there are readings we listen to and music.  Then you go up to the altar for the sermon.  After that you should watch as the priest prepares the communion and we will go up together to receive communion.  Then we’ll sing one last hymn and go to coffee hour.”  He flipped through the service order and said,  “It will be long to read all this.”  I braced myself - but there was no need.

At the Peace I told Zach that people would want to shake his hand and say Peace and sure enough he exchanged the Peace as many people approached him.  Before we said the Our Father, I told him this would be the prayer we said at bedtime.  And when I was looking for the Lift EveryVoice and Sing hymnal, he found it on the lower hymnal rack for me.

I realized that when my son was young I concentrated on his behavior and used various techniques to have him behave enough that he didn’t embarrass me too much. It was more about me than him.  With Zach I have a different intention when I bring him to church.  I want to introduce him to our faith and hope he will learn values here that will stay with him for life.  By taking the time to talk with Zach about what to expect and breaking the service into parts he would recognize it helped him.  He did have a quiet toy to play with and sometimes he played with it –especially during the hymns, but other times he watched and listened.

This is a lesson learned for me and it happened by serendipity.  Once I answered the question, “Will this be long?”,  I sort of got into explaining more.  If you want to share something with a young child who might have difficulty giving it attention, there may be something here of help – whether you are a grandparent, parent, aunt, uncle or adult friend.

Do you have something you do better as a grandparent than you did as a parent?  Please leave a comment and share with us.

Marion

Monday, February 23, 2015

Grandma's Favorites at Toy Fair NY 2015 – Playskool, LEGO, Madame Alexander and Much More



Toy Fair New York is a huge event.  To try to put it in perspective the space of over 7 football fields displayed hundreds of thousands of toys.  Like thousands of other brave souls I was not deterred this freezing, windy, snowy Valentine’s Day/Presidents’ Weekend  - I made it to Toy Fair for two long, exhausting, exhilarating, wonderful days and I took almost 500 pictures. Now I am trying to distill it and develop a plan to write all year long about what I saw.  Much of what is displayed at Toy Fair is not released yet and will be available later in the year and so I have material to take my through the Christmas season.
 
But I can’t wait to share my favorites with you.  They are quite different from other TF highlights lists. This list is seen from the eyes of a grandmother thinking about what she would like a grandchild to have and possibly play/work on together.  It is devoid of apps but isn’t just old fashioned.  At Toy Fair there are toys featured that are not released yet and may not be available to the Fall.  Later in the year I may have more detailed posts – and possibly giveaways – on some of these items. In a sort of age progression here it is:

Play, Stow and Go Toys by Playskool
Playskool Roll 'n Gears Car
One of my favorites for baby/toddlers this year is the new Playskool Play, Stow, Go line.  I saw the whole line (8 toys) opened in play mode and then easily collapsed and travel ready.  After the presenter fully demonstrated all of these she invited an audience member to compete in a contest to reassemble and pack the whole 8 piece collection in a diaper bag.  She had only seen the toys demonstrated once and she finished in a minute 35 seconds. They are reasonably priced and some are available now.  All of these toys are great for visiting Grandma’s house and then a quick cleanup when Mom and Dad are ready to go home. Lightweight, fun and packable.  Great new line from Playskool.


Favorite Plush?  It’s gotta be one of these – The new Red Thread Collection by Bunnies by the Bay.  They are soooo soft and squeezable.   They could become one of those life long favorites.  Available now!

NASCAR Dolls by Madame Alexander
I always visit lots of doll booths and a must visit to see something special is of course, Madame Alexander.  They did not disappoint but they did surprise.  This year, Madame Alexander will be releasing these NASCAR themed dolls including a Danica Patrick doll.  Even Madame Alexander, makers of the most classic dolls, is marketing to modern girls with this and female superhero dolls.  Read more on this in a later post.





Raggedy Ann 100th Anniversary Doll from Aurora World
100th Anniversary Raggedy Ann from Aurora World

This is the 100 anniversary of Raggedy Ann and Andy and Aurora World is releasing this anniversary doll in red, white and blue.  Note the 100th anniversary embroidery in her apron.    Every child should have a Raggedy Ann or Andy doll and this very reasonably priced.  I'll be posting when it is available.





Smithsonian 3-D Mini Puzzles by Skullduggery
 

 








These small 3-d puzzles with tiny motors enabling the figure to move were the best value product I saw at Toy Fair.  There are animals, vehicles and planes. With a retail price of just $4.99 each,   they are perfect for grandparent/grandchild afternoon projects.  Nine of these are available individually at the skullduggery website and Amazon has 3 pack sets.  An additional series of jungle animals with be available in the Fall.  The box says ages 6+.  I think that is about right. Perfect for stocking stuffers and holiday grab bag gifts.

Girl Scout Cookie Oven from Wicked Cool Toys
Girls Scout Cookie Oven from Wicked Cool Toys
Girl Scout Cookie Mix from Wicked Cool Toys










I have never been a big fan of toy bake ovens but this one is worth noting. It has a new modern, eye catching look and a new baking method to half the time needed to bake cookies in an oven for children.  It is getting  a lot of good press and I sampled cookies made in it and they were very excellent.  Of course you can get cookie mix in all of your favorite Girl Scout kinds - thin mints, trefoil, etc.  This also was reviewed by kid reporters for CNBC and they gave it top marks.  Best of all, a share of the price will go the Girl Scouts of USA.  Look for this, a GS lemonade stand and GS wagon in the Fall.


Star Wars line from LEGO 
LEGO Display at Toy Fair Entrance - This needed a Master Builder
LEGO always has the best display and tour of all their new toys coming out during the year and it is hard to decide which LEGO item to feature in a Highlights post.  I am going to cheat a little and say a whole Star Wars line and not just one item. LEGO is introducing 32 new Star Wars themed sets in 2015 inspired by the Star Wars Rebels TV series and the movie which will be released in December – Star Wars: The Force Awakens.  Here’s a sample of what is coming in the Fall:

Sasha and Darth Vader make quite a contrast
















The Camp Game by Education Outdoors
This award winning nature/states based trivia game from a small company caught my eye and I was really impressed when I spoke to the company president. Each card has 4 levels of questions so that a young child and experienced adult camper can both play and be challenged. Great reviews at Amazon.  This game is a winner for families that like to camp and “scouting families.” 

The Camp Game by Education Outdoors
Four Level Questions - All Ages Play with a Challenge
























Some of these won't be available to later this year but here are links on Amazon for what is available now:

Monday, February 2, 2015

Sleepover Heaven with Our Grandson



We have a monthly date with our five year old grandson.  On the Saturday before the first Sunday of the month he comes to our place for a sleepover and then we go to the family church service on Sunday morning.  My husband (Pop), Zach and I all look forward to this monthly event.
Zach with his LEGO Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle Party Wagon Creation

Separating Thousands of  LEGOs by Color
Zach is a super LEGO fan and has many sets but I guess like many kids all the pieces had been put in one large plastic container.  He brought them to our house and the plan was to separate them by color and then just like Pop did with our son’s collection look up the parts list for each set and rebuild the sets.  However, today’s sets have a zillion unique and some very small pieces and no parts lists for each set online.  LEGO is cranking out new sets galore but they have given up on this feature of their documentation.  Well we had a fun project and learned the value of keeping organized anyway and separated the pieces by color.  The grey and black pieces needed sweater size boxes and we used different sized containers for other colors.  


Zach took a couple of breaks from organizing to build his own LEGO creations – the best kind. Here is a Party Wagon.  It has a canon to shoot soda and breath mints (on the right side).  The transparent pieces facing up turn into flames for light and the other upward piece is a boomer.  The rack off the back launches the fireworks.  If you are interested in renting the party boar for your 4th of July party perhaps I can get you a good price.

Zach's Version of the TMNT Party Wagon


Next up is Iron Man – Tony Stark’s mansion.  Zach did explain all the details to me but I can’t remember them as I really don’t know anything about Iron Man.


My grandson's version of Tony Stark's (Iron Man) Mansion

After a bath  Zach put on his Batman pajamas – the one with the cape – and he chose books from Grandma’s rather extensive library of books.  Some were my kids’ favorites that I have saved and some are hand me downs from my niece.  Here’s what he chose in the end:
Zach's Choice of Books for Bedtime Reading

A pretty eclectic mix. Batman to the Berenstain Bears – in that order.  Followed up with two of my favorites – Harry and the Lady Next Door and Miss Smith Reads Again.   Just Go to Bed is the perfect topper for bedtime.

Zach and I were up early on Sunday morning and I made blueberry pancakes before we went to church.  My son called to say he would be joining us and I had the pleasure of watching my son guide his nephew/godson in church and all of us receive communion together.  He enjoys going up to the altar for the childrens’ sermons on these family service days and is well behaved during the service.  I always bring a few small items to occupy his attention. He likes to sit on the aisle so he can see the altar.  I think it is important to introduce children to our faith traditions.  Everyone needs to make their own choices as an adult but having a church home and a grounding in faith, ethics and morals is important to me and I am glad that my daughter supports our monthly church visits.

Zach always enjoys the time in our parish hall after the service too and then its time to head home to his parents.  We’ll see him throughout the month for family dinners of after school visits but our monthly sleepovers are really special to all of us.

Here are links to the books we read on Amazon: